A matter of beauty

Maybe it's not important. And earlier I had something else on mind that I think was actually important, but I wasn't feeling it. Maybe another time.

Life isn't all about Light and Darkness - this whole good versus evil stuff. I'd think, that the more one tends to see it in these extremes, the less meaningful their concept of (the after)life. And so, sometimes - so I think - the important stuff is also rather mundane.

But not everybody sees it this way. Yet? Well, at any rate, would that be part of the problem. Is.
Anyhow. I think this is to be an example. The very general gist of it, is that the central point here is I think generally true - with some outliers, but nothing that really matters. Yet. These things, the balance, can shift; But we get there when we get there.
For, the central point is this: We obsess over beauty, the own one, because it soothes our mind; In the sense where 'the law of attraction' concerns 'attractiveness'. To say that it is a thing we can tell ourselves or, in a sense, rely on - as an answer per chance to the question of why [someone] would Love you.
In the idea then, there are two ways to take this. On the one side we have vanity - superficialness - as a doubling down on these beliefs to the end of appearances. Like, one wants their partner to be attractive, and the same would or should apply to the respective other. On the other we perceive that in as far as beauty, like taste, is transient - that for the other qualities of partnership to matter, beauty isn't the end all be all.

... to be iterated upon ... eventually